8.14.2011

Sex

Sex. No one talks about it, everyone is doing it. I am going to write about it. Girlfriend & I have recently confirmed our relationship by having a buzzed night of hair pulling, body shaking, hardly breathing, and completely intoxicating sex. It changed a lot for the good, yes and for the bad, a little. The good parts are her sexy side, god I love the way she came out of her shell but, our conversations are different as well. We as a couple a more sexually starved and I can not get the image of her underneath me out of my head. It taught me something really important, no one is ever really ready.

Sex is so important, just not in the way that every person stresses. When it comes down to it sex changes everything it is complicated as much as it is fun and I am only talking between women. Put heterosexual sex in the mix and you have the risk of bringing another person into the world. It goes without saying that sex brings on the risk of disease, viruses, and potential death or crabs haha.

Sex can toy with emotions too, in case you didn't know when a woman has an orgasm the hormones released make you more attached to the person who supplied you the orgasm. That's right, there is no such things as friends with benefits when it comes to lesbians; don't even try, just take my advice. Men on the other hand don't get the same response that women do, of course and well they just get happy and super tired.

There is so much you can write about sex, you could literally write a fifty page expose' on just the different kinds and still have one hundred left to name. Sex can be everything, sex can be just something, but never is sex just nothing. So the next time you go to take some one's pants of, or just move their panties to the side (because that's sexy too) remember, no person is ever fully ready for it. My advice, wear a helmet or at least a condom.

6 comments:

  1. I was skim reading this & thought you said 'potential death by crabs'. HA. The horror.

    Sex complicates everything, but it's so so good! I got in an argument with an ex because i placed sex high up on a list of important things to me as part of a relationship. But i stick to that point. Sex is an integral part of any relationship, without it you are missing a vital part of intimacy. Thats why i don't understand no sex before marriage. But like you said, it shouldn't be something you rush into.

    & JAL- plenty of love to be given over here baby!!

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  2. Ahhh!! Twad'dler is not only teasing me in my blog, but in yours too! The torture and sexual frustration.

    Group sex anyone? ;);)

    All of my blogging buddies have girlfriends. I just realized this. I'm the only single one left. How sad. We should all make it our mission to get me laid, please.

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  3. Okay ladies-

    JAL: Your mission because you are the single one is to live it up so we can live the dream through you.

    Twad & I will tell you all the cute shit and, bitch to even it out. I swear the three of us are the power group from lesbian blogging.

    But to finish my original thought, I go to an all women's college. I have over 100 gay friends. Just saying.

    Bottom line I love you guys :)

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