Having Sex and Making Love

You know what really gets me, like totally baffles me the difference between sex and making love? It's the same action but depending on the performance level, setting, and the words exchanged it is completely different. The given is obviously, how the persons involved feel about each other but can't you have sex and make love with the same person if you love them, where as you can't make love to a person you don't love or have love for so, then wouldn't it just be sex? Really what makes them so much different and is it the same with gay men and women the way it is with heterosexual men and women?

Sex can be emotionless, you can "fuck" someone who you met that same day and while there is always some guilt the next day it's still fairly acceptable.

Making Love is something two people in love do. It's the act of becoming intimate with each other and being connected physically as much as mentally.

I can easily say I have had sex with people and not had "love" for them, I can't say that about making love. I have found being a woman of experience [HAHA] it is much harder to have sex with out emotion with other women then men. It is also safe to say that I have had much more loveless sex with men then women, in fact I have not had loveless sex ever with a woman. None the less I am not justifying either of them, I can remember the days I planned on "waiting" until true love came or marriage, that plan didn't happen for me and while I regret it, everything happens for a reason.

What do you guys think, I would love to hear other insights and opinions-